Do you want to know how to talk to girls at parties?
Did you know that meeting girls are parties is so much easier than compared to cold approaching random women in bars or clubs? In fact, it’s so much easier that I am almost ALWAYS guaranteed to leave the party with either a hot girls number or take her somewhere else afterwards.
Yes, parties are totally awesome and if you have been avoiding them because you don’t know what to say then you’re seriously in for a shock. You need to go to these things because it’s an open invitation to meet hot and friendly women.
The cool thing about a party is that it’s much more laid back and relaxed to talk to the people around you. The pressure for you to perform is not so high, so generally speaking meeting and talking to girls at parties should be much more fun than picking up girls in a club.
Here are some general rules to keep in mind when talking to girls at parties.
Get her details, but don’t give yours
The first step that you have to do is to ask her name and build rapport. Since you’re at a party it’s a lot easier to ask her what her name is without being strange and awkward you can say something like “Hi girls, I’m here and I need to make some friends, otherwise I’m going to be a loner. You look like a nice person, what’s your name”.
After you ask her for name ask her how she knows the host of the party. After that, you should dive into topics that involve a relationship problem.
I would advise you to use the best pickup lines that I have compiled here. But alternatively just ask what you have in mind. Make sure you do NOT give your name or details unless she asks for it. When she does you can say “I’ll give you 3 guesses, if you guess correctly then I’ll get you a drink, if you get it wrong, then you go pour me a drink”. That immediately sets up a fun and flirtatious atmosphere.
Don’t put yourself on spotlight
As much as possible, avoid talking about you. What you want to do is not give too much information and remain a bit more mysterious. What you need to do is always banter and play games for more details about yourself. The reason for this is you’re going to be creating a really fun interaction that will make her think that you’re different. Here’s an example:
Her: So tell me about yourself.
You: Sure, I could tell you, but I’d have to kill you. Why don’t you tell me something cool about yourself that you don’t tell other people first. If you pass, then I’ll reveal to you my secret identity.
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Confidence Check
Generally speaking, if you’re there at the party there are other guys who are going to be better looking and attractive than you are. But you have something that they don’t have.
You have extreme confidence in your ability to talk to women. When you talk to girls, make sure you’re fun and flirtations, you let her know how much of a man you are by being confident in the way you carry yourself. You have to sit back and relax and be “the man” of the party.
Becoming Optimistic
I know this is a bit obvious, but please refrain from talking about anything negative or sad. It really kills the fun vibe and ruins it for everyone there. So if you’re feeling down and out, make sure you don’t linger upon that feeling. Your thoughts are contagious.
Be playful
Remember girls like guys who are fun to be around and are entertaining. What you need to do is never answer her questions directly and you want to avoid giving her as much detail about you as possible, whilst flirting with her and getting as much information as you can from her. This way you’ll be fun and mysterious and she’ll be thinking about you the whole night.
Be funny
People in general like to hang around others that can make them feel good. The easiest and most direct way to make a girl feel good is by making her laugh. I like combining my humour with my sarcasm. This is a very powerful combination and usually results in women bursting out into laughter. This coupled with my merciless teasing of the women that I’m around really makes me stand out. You should always tease the girls around you.
Remember, if you want to know how to talk to girls at parties you have to do more than just read this article. Sure following the points given here will help you a lot but nothing can beat your personal experience.
So go out there and talk to them today!