If you’re looking for the best pickup artist training, then I’m going to tell you what you need to know to become a masterful PUA.
I have been studying dating and seduction for a long time and have studied the Mystery Method, read the “The Game’, know all about being Cock and Funny and read all the books and programs from Real Social Dynamics, Ross Jeffries, Carlos Xuma, Thundercat and the plethora of other dating gurus around.
I have noticed that there are 6 things that ALL of these guys have in common.
So if you want to do engage in some pickup artist training from the comfort of your own living room, read these 6 elements and see if you can improve upon them.
Train Seriously
I know a lot of guys wish that they could improve their game, but do nothing in reality to actually make it better. Then there are guys who go and read about this topic and perhaps buy a few books about dating and seduction, but when it comes to approaching women in real life, they wouldn’t have the slightest clue.
If you’re one of these academic PUAs who know all the theory about seduction, but have no real world application then you’re not taking this seriously.
Get Rid of a Wingman
Having a wingman by your side really reduces the amount of work you need to do yourself. It’s like riding a bicycle with a set of training wheels. You’ll never get as good as other PUAs if you always seduce women with the help of a wingman. Remember, if you really want to make it to be a superstar, you have to be able to seduce women by yourself and hold your own when it comes to approaching and attracting the women that you desire.
Inner game and self esteem
As a pick up artist, you will have to work on your confidence level and improve your self-esteem.
What you need to do is really understand the difference between fake confidence and real confidence.
Fake confidence is when you use the routine or line that someone else has developed to make it appear as if you know what you’re doing. In reality, you have no idea and you’re just “faking it”. Sure this will get some where with girls but it won’t get you far enough. What you need to do is work on your inner game and develop REAL confidence by improving upon your personality in such a way that you are really confident with the way you are from the inside.
Be real
Remember you got into this game not because you wanted to impress women with your fake routines. No, you wanted to learn how to seduce women because you wanted to show them who you really are as a person. You just didn’t know how to present your personality in a way that would catch their attention.
Do not be like one of the guys who get caught up too much with trying to impress girls and forget the fact that they are just using lines and routines made by other people. After a while you have to drop all this charade and talk about more important things. If you have nothing to show for your personality but a set of pre scripted lines and routines, then you are not helping yourself.
Dress to Impress
This should be a bit obvious, but dress to impress the girls that you want to impress. I’m not saying you should look like a rockstar, but you should know what kind of girl you are interested in. If you like girls who like to dance and are into R&B and hip hop, dress the same so she’ll feel as if you’re part of her tribe. You don’t need to spend a lot of money to look good, but make sure you do spend some time fixing this area.
Listen
Be a good listener. After a while, some guys forget the fact that they are learning seduction in order to actually improve their relationships with women. These guys end up thinking that being a PUA is all about the amount of numbers they can collect and how many girls they can end up banging. If this is you, then you’re missing the point of seduction. The real reason why you should become a PUA is so that you develop the ability to not only ask the right questions, but are able to LISTEN to the answers you get so you get a true understanding of how females think and feel towards you. Do not get caught up in the cycle where you think your life revolves around the number of approaches you’ve done. That’s not the point.
If you take your pick up artist training seriously, then you’ll realise that these points are all about making yourself improve as a person. So make sure you actually do improve upon your personality and not rely on rehashed material just to get laid.