Do you want to know what attracts women and really understand how attraction works?
I cannot stress to you the importance of learning this topic in detail. The reason why I believe there are so many societal problems with affairs and marriage downs nowadays is because most people have no idea how attraction works. Yes, guys and girls really don’t know what to do in order to maintain attraction for the long term. Heck, most guys have no idea how to even get girls interested to them for the short term.
I think this is really sad, but I must admit. I used to be like that as well. But since then I have learned and evolved, and I’ll show you what I have developed.
I’m going to break it down to you here, it’s not that complicated really, but you need to id understand a little about human psychology and apply it to seduction.
It’s actually much more simple than most guys think and once you understand the basics it’s very easy to pull off each time.
What you need to do is be a great teaser.
You need to tease to please her
Mocking or jokingly teasing a woman, particularly a super hot one will trigger something inside her mind that makes you stand out.
You create an emotion inside of her that she just has to unleash in order to make herself feel better.
So how does she go about doing this?
By constantly trying to prove to you that she’s not the “ditsy” girl or “silly sally” that you constantly accuse her of being.
Reverse psychology actually works because beautiful women don’t get teased a lot by men. In fact, I would bet you they have an army of men waiting to throw praise upon her.
So most women of beauty really don’t know how to handle a guy who knows how to tease her. They are constantly adored unconsciously by beta males who are desperate and always put her on a pedestal. She’s used to getting treated like a princess, but when she’s around you, she’s brought back down to reality. This is why teasing a woman or making fun of her is very dominant and a great way to attract her.
I have outlined a few other pointers you need to understand in order to understand what truly attracts a women so that you can use it to your advantage.
- Make sure she knows that you’re just playing a joke on her, and don’t go too far. Remember if she gets offended then you’re missing the point. You’re just teasing her. You want to tease to PLEASE her. You need to do BOTH at the same time.
- She’s got to be the kind that is able to handle your teasing. There are some women who are just simply uptight. This kind of attraction doesn’t work well on them (frankly these girls are boring as hell so you wouldn’t want to be around them anyway).
- Teasing only works with girls who are very confident with themselves (most of the time they are very attractive). You need to make sure that you know she’s very confident. I have met some girls who are very attractive, but do not have the confidence. If you tease these kinds of girls they’ll think your insulting them and it’s going to back fire on you. So make sure you only make fun of girls who can handle it or are very self confident.
How about women who lack self-confidence?
Don’t make the mistake of teasing a woman who lacks self-confidence. Her perception of self-worth is already low and if you make fun of her in front of others, you’ll only bring her self esteem down even more with your insults this may cause hopelessness and despair to her. You’re not teasing to please her then.
With these kinds of girls you can afford to give her some back handed compliments.
What do I mean by this? You can say something that is positive to her, but then at the same time it’s a negative.
For example: “did you know that you’re really pretty? Except I really don’t like your hair”. What you’re doing there is complimenting her MORE than you’re making fun of her. So you increase her self esteem but at the same time don’t come across like another loser guy who’s just there waiting to add more points to her self esteem.
Remember, if you want to know what attracts women, simply reading an article about how to tease her is NOT enough. You need to go out there and take action and try different things. To me, I think teasing is the BEST way to attract a woman, but you might know other methods.
If you do, feel free to comment and share your thoughts so that you can help other guys out there!