Do you want to know how to get laid when you first meet a girl?
Well, understand this.
The first thing you need to realize is that some girls will not ever have sex with you on the first date.
Ever!
These are the kinds of girls that hold on so stubbornly to their belief that you shouldn’t push too hard on this subject, because nothing will change their minds.
There are a few variables to deal with, and for some girls the first date is the perfect time to have sex with you.
That’s great for you!
But in order to make this happen you need a strategy and method
You will need a solid game plan, and to know the three factors that will tell you whether you’re going to end up with an awkward hug or with her cooking you eggs in the morning …
Some women will not have sex with you until you are in a committed relationship with her, so keep that in mind. It’s nothing to do with you, it’s just her philosophy. SO what you will have to do, is look for a girl who is sexually open and adventurous.
That is not to say that other girls are not sexually open and adventurous, they just need different circumstances.
Their preferences are not always obvious straight away. But use the information that I’m going to share with you right now.
I want to state the painfully obvious.
If she is wearing very conservative clothing (and has not come straight from work) and likes to talk about church, or is offended by dirty jokes, you are probably looking at the wrong girl.
Yes, I still see guys who try to bed girls they pickup at Church on the first date.
Seriously, they are not going to get anywhere.
So you need to choose and consider your targets carefully.
Another factor is how you talk to her
If you have not polished up on your social skills, you can’t expect her to instantly decide to go home with you. You have to be confident, pay attention to her, smile at her, take the opportunity to touch her in a non threatening but sexy way, and give her that flirtatious interaction where she feels aroused by comfortable at the same time.
What is important that you know enough to test the waters. Start using some sexual innuendo in your conversation and see how she responds to it.. If she is the type of girl who is interested, then she’ll play along. But you need to be able to read her signs. By this time, you have probably had some clues already, all you need to do is pay attention and be confident.
For example, read her body language and look at what she’s saying. I would suggest that you play some games with her to start touching her physically. For example, you can hold her hand to do some basic palm reading, but as soon as she gives you her hand, you push it away because you accuse her of not washing it. See how she reacts. If she likes you, she’ll insist that her hands are clean and would want to you continue reading her palm. If this is the case, slowly increase your physical touching by suggesting punishments whereby you get to tickle or poke her. If she lets you do this, then she really likes you.
Where are you at?
Another important thing is logistics – this is really, really important. This can really mess up your evening if you don’t know h0w you’re going to get her back to your place without looking sleazy. Everything can be lined up for you to get together and get it on, but if you can’t get her physically where you need her to be, you’re going to fail.
One thing I like to do, and advise you to do is to have a “pre party” or have the girl meet you at YOUR place before you go out. That way it seems as if it’s natural to head back where you came from – it’s also a lot easier to suggest to go back to your place for a few drinks. What I also like to do is make sure we do not go somewhere very far, otherwise she’s going to make sure before hand she arranges her own transport home and that will kill your chances of getting laid the first time.
Remember, if you want to learn how to get laid when you first meet a girl, there are 3 important things to keep in mind. After taking into consideration these factors make sure you don’t say something stupid! BUT even if you do, it’s ok. Rejection is great as it means your one step closer to success.