Do you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back?
Let me show the steps that you need to take in order to really win back her heart. You should keep in mind that you should pay a lot of attention to the advice I’m about to give you because you only have one chance to get her back. If mess up then you’re going to blow the only chance you have at reconciliation. Sure, some girls are nicer and give you another chance, but most of the time if you blow it, that’s it. You don’t get a second chance.
What you need to now right now is that this is a normal phase during the relationship cycle. Everyone experiences a break up once or twice (or many more times) during their life. That’s just the way life works. You have ups, you have downs.
Right down you’re just in the down phase.
I have outlined some steps that you can take in order to get your girlfriend back. Be sure to read this very carefully otherwise you might lose your only chance to get her back.
Step 1: You Have To be Honest With Yourself
If you want to be sure if you are on the right path in getting your ex girlfriend back, then your first step is to be honest in judging your actions. You have to think about the things that caused the break up. You have to be open and sincere in your judgment and don’t point fingers or blame your partner. If you do this, you will start to realize the mistakes that caused your breakup with your ex. Before you can fix the problem you need to know what went wrong.
You really need to take a step back and assess the situation. This step is vital.
Step 2: Be Firm In Not Repeating The Same Mistakes That Caused The Breakup
Now that you know what went wrong and after taking mental notes to not do it again. The next step you have to do is to make sure that you do everything you can avoid the situations that led up the the break up.
You also have to overcome such short comings – maybe it had something to do with your own personality.
Also, give it some time before you go and find out whether or not your ex is willing to get back together.
Do not rush things, you only have one chance so don’t blow it.
If you are the jealous type, then try to work on being less possessive. If you have a bad temper and end up yelling at her, make a note of this to refrain from doing this again.
It’s safe to say that as tough as your ex may be, she still hurts on the inside. The breakup would have caused tremendous pain to her as well.
Step 3: You Have To Allow The Wounds To Be Healed By Time
Once you realized what caused your breakup and after trying to put together the pieces, you have to ensure that you don’t do the same mistakes again. You also have to make sure that you give her enough time to heal from her wounds. This also applies to you. Give yourself time. If you rush things, it will only complicate your chances of getting back together with your ex. Another benefit of giving it time is this. Your absence will make her miss you more. Give her the time to miss you so that when ever you appear again she’s going to not take you for granted.
Step 4: Make Her Want You Again
This is where self improvement is very important. Since you haven’t seen her in a while, make sure that you look your very best. This means you have the best attitude and your oozing with confidence. You have shaved and you’re looking as attractive as you can be. On top of that your personality was what it used to be – you’re funny and care free. By doing this you remind her of why she fell in love with you in the first place.
After implementing these four steps you should be close to getting your ex attracted to you again. Make sure that you don’t mess up and do the steps in the wrong order or skip a step. The reason for this is you only get one shot at getting her back, so make sure you make it count.
I honestly feel for you buddy, and I know that this time will pass very soon.
All you need to do understand that you’re not alone and there are other guys just like you who have lived through this situation and are now fine – either with their ex, or they have happily moved on.
You won’t be hurt forever.