It’s not that difficult to get to know a girl, in fact it’s so simple that I’m going to tell you what you need to know by reading this article.
Well at least, it’s going to get her to like you more.
But once you understand this, let me tell you, your success rate with the women around you will sky rocket to levels that you never dreamed of. You’re going to be able to effortless be the guy that girls want to get with and soon you’ll have a problem where you have TOO MANY GIRLS to choose from.
You want that “problem”?
Then let me tell you a thing or two about flirting.
When you want to get her to like you, you have to be a master of flirting.
So you need to generate sexual tension.
How do you generate sexual tension?
What you need to do is constantly tease and make fun of her about everything and anything. Give her a playful and cute nickname. The reason for this is because you’ll be able to instantly create rapport and make her feel as if you’ve known her for a long time. I mean, think about it. Only good friends give each other nicknames, so in order to fast track this process, just mimic what you do around your buddies. However, at the same time you don’t want to end up in the friends zone. So you need to be teasing her in a way that implies she’s trying to get into your pants and seduce you. Not only is this fun for the both of you but it really amplifies the attraction she has for you.
Here’s an example, say things like:
“I’m not that easy to get into bed you know”
“Stop looking at me like I’m a piece of meat”
“Look, I’m not going to sleep with you ok? I need to get to know you first and feel comfortable and safe and know that you’re trustworthy and won’t just run away”
By putting yourself in the position of the girl, whilst saying these funny lines it’s going to make her know that you’re hitting on her but in a way that makes you stand out.
Ask her questions about past relationships
Women can be a bit nervous if they have had a bad relationship in the past, so don’t do or say anything to scare her off. Get to know her slowly and don’t rush things, give her time to slowly open up to you. Make sure you listen when she speaks, and pay attention when you answer her. You need to win her trust, and give her time to get to know you. A good question that always works to open up a conversation about relationships and dating WITHOUT being very direct is to ask this:
“Tell me about the worst pickup attempt you’ve been in”.
By doing that she’ll open up and tell you exactly what happened and it’ll be fun and interesting for the both of you. Plus, this is a perfect question to segment into relationship and dating talk.
I hope you enjoyed this article, if you want to skip the friends zone and get straight into “more than just friends” or be “friends with benefits”, then watch this video. It’s going to show you exactly what you need to do. Step by step: Click here
Find out what she cares about
When you work out what her passion or interest is, then you are onto something. When she realises you are interested in the same thing and have the same values and beliefs then it’s going to really make her that much more interested in you. If she feels able to talk to you about what she is interested in that will establish a connection between you. This is when you need to make sure that you use the connection you have established to make sure that you really make an impression in her mind.
Saying things that will gently remind her of destiny and fate is a great way to get her to never forget about you. Such as:
“Wow, there are 6 billion people in this world and what are the chances of meeting someone exactly like me, who likes the same things, has the same beliefs and enjoys the same hobbies – I don’t believe in fate, but this is kind of weird”.
Befriend her friends
One thing to keep in mind is to be nice to her friends ALL THE TIME. Yes, this is obvious but I still see guys who just ignore the men around the girl they are trying to get. If you do this you’re just killing your chances of success with this girl. Why? Because she’s going to pick up negative vibes through out the interaction and know that there’s something going on. Do not make her choose between you and her friends. She’ll most likely choose her friends in that instance.
So now that you’ve learned the basics of building rapport and attraction rapidly, make sure you go out there and make friends with that cute girl you’ve been wanting to for the past week!
Good luck.