A lot of guys have challenges when it comes to flirting with women on a date.
Most of the time they are afraid to say too much – so they end up saying too little.
Or they might be afraid to touch her too much – so they don’t touch her at all.
I’m going to show you what I do in order to really ramp up the attraction and show you the secret methods and techniques I use to really flirt with a woman to build sexual attention and incredible amounts of attraction towards me.
This is what I do in order to make her touch me FIRST so that she forces ME to start touching her in a flirty way.
Get her to touch you first!
How to get her to touch you steps:
1. give her a little nick name or make fun of her – this is to test to see if she likes you. If she does she’s going to flirt back and pretend to not want to have that nickname imposed on her. I like to use nicknames like “doey” or “ditsy”. These names are kind of cute, but they are also mean at the same time.
2. if she flirts back, then you say “hey hey, no touching ok? Other girls will get jealous” – normally by saying this, she’ll actually start touching you even though she didn’t touch you at all. Why because when she flirts she’ll want to do what you told her NOT to do.
3. Once she starts touching you say “ok, if you keep sexually harassing me, I’m going to have to teach you a lesson”. Then keep on teasing her so she’ll playfully punch you. This is when you go in and start tickling her in the stomach by poking her a few times. Make sure you poke her once or twice at the start just to test to see if she’s ticklish. If she is, then say “you’re sooo dead” then go in and tickle her alot.
That’s how I like to flirt with woman on a date, by getting her to touch me first so I can end up tickling her.
So what are the topics I like to talk about in order to show her I’m flirting with her?
I ask her these questions:
- “what do you think is the sexiest part of your body and why”
- “if there was a man that you could just seduce and get away with it, who would it be and why”
- “what do you think makes up an incredible connection between people”
- “describe your ideal man”
- “what do you think is more important? A man who is impotent but nice and caring, or a man who’s very gifted in that department but not as thoughtful”
Now before I ask her these questions I tell her that her answers have to be interesting and funny, otherwise I’m going to have to punish her by either tickling her more or just stop being her friend and leaving her alone immediately.
Accuse her of seducing you
One of the funniest and easiest ways to flirt with a girl is to bring up sexual topics subtly and once she picks up on it, immediately accuse her of being perverted and trying to seduce you.
On top of that if you act superbly innocent and come across being WAY TOO inexperienced she’s going to pick this up and it’ll be funny.
Here’s an example:
You: Did you know that dolphins and monkeys are the only animals apart from human that have sex for fun?
Her: They must like sex a lot.
You: Are you trying to seduce me using sex talk? I can’t believe that you’re so perverted. Please, I’m very traditional, I need to get you know you first before we can take the interaction further.
You need to create a push/pull interaction with the girl that you want to flirt with.
You either do this physically (by poking her, but telling her to get away from you), verbally (by telling her she’s doey, but then “you’re the hottest doey girl I’ve met”) or combining both (poke her at the same time whilst saying “please don’t trying to get into my pants).
As you can see, by constantly saying one thing and doing another. Or rejecting her and then pulling her closer, it really ramps up the attraction that you’re going to feel between the both of you.
Once that happens you’re well on your way to flirting with a woman.
So keep these pointers in mind:
- flirt with her physically
- flirt with her verbally
- keep up a push/pull dynamic
- accuse her of trying to get you into bed
- pretend to be totally innocent
If you repeat the above 5 steps then I guarantee you that you’re going to have no troubles when it comes to flirting with girls and women in the future.
So next time if someone asks you how to flirt with a woman on a date, make sure you tell him the 5 golden rules I just made up for you!
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