Today I’m going to talk about how to attract women using the power of social proof to your advantage.
I’m going to explain to you a concept that you probably have never heard of or even knew existed. Yes, it’s going to be that “new” to you because most dating guides don’t even mention this.
But let me ask you a question.
If you are out in a bar or club, how do you carry yourself?
Do you always do clubbing on your own?
Do you find yourself wandering, looking like someone who is lost, and more often than not you end up making friends with just the bartender?
I’m going to reveal a very interested theory for you to understand.
The reason why you’re not able to attract women is because you constantly demonstrate to the girls around you that you have what is known as low value. Yes, you are seen as a guy that’s a beta male a person who is not as important as she is someone that’s just a loner.
What do I mean by this?
Women are attracted to men who are in positions of power.
That is why we seem to think that girls like guys with money, status and good looks. It’s true that they tend to be attracted to these sorts of guys, but the fact is most of them have high value. This in turn is shown through their material wealth and possessions. Once they have a “high status” in their mind, their very persona incorporates this self belief and they are “different” than most other guys out there.
You can look and see how a person thinks of himself by his actions.
That is take a look at the way they walk around in this world being unapologetic and they know what they want and are not afraid to get it.
Unlike most guys who are too afraid to even mention the issue about sex and make rude jokes in front of the girls they are interested in, these guys openly speak their mind. In fact, it’s expected that they have something to talk about that further solidifies their dominance over the men around them.
Often when they walk or go places they have a group of guys who just swarm around them a list to every bidding they make. They are seen as “the man” and without him, then the need of the other guys there cease to exist.
This gives these guys higher value because they have social proof
Another thing you might notice is that these sorts of men often have attractive women around them.
What does this say to other girls around him?
It tells these other girls that this guy is a safe guy, he’s not creepy and he “gets it” with women. That’s why he’s got both girls and guys following him and wanting to be around him all the time.
So how do you get social proof to work in your favour to attract women and get a girlfriend?
Instead of going to places alone, make sure you go there with other people.
Go out with other people in groups!
The best way to get social proof is have an attractive female around you. Not only will she be able to lower the guard of other girls around you – because they will think that this girl is with you thus you’re taken so you’re not a threat to them. But also she might be your wing women and start talking to other attractive women.
This is the perfect way for you to meet girls.
Having a female wing women often at times gives you better results than having a male wingman because it looks as if you’re not out there hunting for girls. It looks like you’re just out with a female to have fun and relax to enjoy yourself. This is extremely attractive to other women because it shows that you’re a man who is able to have a good time.
So in order to get a girlfriend you need to come across as being a guy with high value, and one way of demonstrating this is by having massive amounts of social proof.
Now having said that, having social proof alone will not get you a girlfriend – but it will be enough to generate some attraction for the women around you. What it will get you however is a chance to talk to the women that you desire without immediately being labelled as a loser or a creep.
So it gets your foot in the door but you still need to have the personality and know what it really takes in order to attract women and get a girlfriend. You can’t just rely on one single element to carry you through, you need to have the whole package.